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Identify bad money habits

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You see tips all the time to help build a successful savings — or, at the very least, ways to pare down your spending. Ever wonder what decisions will lead to financial failure? Identifying negative behaviors, thoughts or habits is important in order to work on changing them. Here’s a list of things you can learn to stop doing.

TRY TO KEEP UP: So and so has this and that, so you have to have it, too. You keep up with the latest and greatest of everything.

ALWAYS GOING TO PAY: Thinking that you’re always going to have a mortgage or car payment, so you spend excessive money that could be spent toward paying down debt instead of increasing it.

ENTITLEMENT: You justify your overindulgences by telling yourself that you deserve to splurge. Hey, they extended you all that credit, so you should use it, right? Your kids have to have everything that you didn’t when you were growing up, too. They want for nothing. They’re adults, and you’re still doing everything for them. You bail them out of countless jams. You let them manipulate you because you were such a bad parent. They deserve more. You can’t pay your electric bill, but that’s one impressive flat-screen television. The world owes you something.

ICK FACTOR: You wouldn’t dare use or buy anything secondhand. You think it’s all junk.

IDENTITY ISSUES: Your identity is wrapped up in what you own. You care what everyone else thinks, so you go to great measures to surround yourself with luxury to impress others.

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LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY: You blame others, won’t listen to suggestions, or avoid handling late payments responsibly. You don’t prepare for emergencies. You just let whatever happens simply happen. Paying late charges isn’t a penalty. They don’t cost that much. You hope that by ignoring things, they’ll go away. You make excuses, but you don’t do anything to change things.

NO MAINTENANCE: Instead of maintaining your car, you simply trade it in for a new one. It becomes someone else’s problem. You don’t research your new car purchase beforehand. You love that new-car smell.

POOR HEALTH: You smoke or drink excessively. You know you’re unhealthy but don’t do anything to change it. Why plan your future when you won’t be around anyway? When you need medical attention, you put it off until it’s critical. You don’t see the connection between your health and finances.

NO RETIREMENT FUND: You think Social Security or family members will handle it all. You keep on charging to your credit card. You don’t consider debt as lent money that you owe to real people who extended services or products to you.

DON’T BUDGET: You think it all balances out in the end. You don’t track incoming or outgoing money. You procrastinate and will get to it tomorrow, next week or after the new year.

LOANS: Continue spending what you can’t afford. You turn to payday-advance companies or home-equity loans. Then you can’t pay them. Soon after, you file for bankruptcy.


What was or is your worst bad money habit?

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Posted by Sara Noel on December 27 2008. Filed under Frugal & simple living.
Sara Noel owns Frugal Village, LLC and is a nationally syndicated columnist with United Media. Bio, Follow me on Twitter, Join us on Facebook.


2 Comments for “Identify bad money habits”

  1. Great article, thanks!

    I really think that so many issues stem from when people ‘try to keep up’ as you say. Everyone is constantly chasing after more and more stuff while in a seemingly endless competition to get the biggest, best, newest gadget.

    All of this has really made life so complicated and forces so many people to never be happy with what they already have. If more people would just step back and be content in the present instead of striving for more and more, I truly believe we would all be a lot happier.

    ~ Jason

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  2. I ditto the previous comment. They use psychologist in advertising, to be able to word it, the right pictures, etc, so we are conditioned to think in a certain, feel a certain way, and so on. Some seem more prone to get caught up in all that from watching tv, or all the other ads we all run into throughout the day. They even rate the students at those schools to be good salespersons. Competitions in who can sell the most products, and how to do it. How to work people. I am amazed by it all. There was a article on another site where it spoke to what waiters do to get higher tips. And how we fall for those ways used on us. Reading such things is eye opening. It would be great to know more. You know?
    To be better prepared, to make better decisions in life.

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